Malibu - Live the Limestone Lifestyle

First Contact after Initial Interaction

2008-02-15T10:53:00.004+11:00

So, you've hit the clubs, bars, whatever...you approach various women, got one or teo phone numbers...now what?

I got a question on forum:

What's the best way to contact someone after the initial interaction? Lately, I've been calling my pick-ups and all I get are answering machines, phones left to ring, basically flaking on the phone.

First and foremost you want to make sure that you did the basics right WHILE you were interacting with her at the meeting location.

Interest

Did you build enough interest for her to want to spend more time with you OUTSIDE the venue?

Were you getting indicators of interest? ARE YOU SURE...? sometimes they can be fake...the best IOI is if she is touching you...was she?

More importantly did you SCREEN her. If you didnt screen her correctly its possible that she will develop 'buyers remorse'...yeh she gave you her number but if you didnt exchange value with her for some of the qualities that you like in a woman through the whole screening process then she WILL flake. In her mind she will be thinking "yeh he's cool but why does he want me?...He must just want sex!"...FLAKE

Touch

Did you touch a.k.a kino her correctly...did you escalate through the physical escalation sequence required?

Did you touch her early enough?

Were you touching her at all?

Isolation

Did you move her to be alone with her in order to build comfort? You cant build comfort while she is with her friends. Did you build comfort at all? You need some comfort built before leaving the initial interaction. Sometimes you might need Trust as well.

If the answer to the above is NO...then you have work to do before worrying about making the first phone call.

If the answer to the above is maybe...dont forget that girls giving her number to you doesnt mean SHIT. As discussed the best indicator is if she is touching you..there are other factors but they need to be calibrated by your experience.

If the answer to the above is YES to all...then on we go.

First Contact

The first thing that I like to do, if the interaction went well...is text her later on that night...for example if you teased her about being dorky...then you can say something like:

"Hey i just saw a girl on my way home that reminded me of how dorky and cute you are! Had fun...talk to you soon...Malibu"

Simple

Next...wait a day...I usually like to wait a day. If its really really on you can call the next day but i did some field research on Australian women and they get really creeped out by guys who call the next day...too needy...If you get her numebr on saturday...call monday afternoon/evening.

Dont text her unless she initiates text conversations. Some girls are more comfortable to text that talk...so if thats what they want then its ok to text. But every now and then you should call to show your confidence.

If she doesnt answer when you call? Leave a voice message..but dont make it sound needy...you also want to make it seem like you have something on and you werent calling her to arrange a meting:

"Hey its malibu, I just called to say hi...anyway im going to pickup my brother from work soon so Ill talk to you after"

Notice how I havent said "call me back" that sounds needy..so now just wait for her to call.

If she doesnt call you back? Wait a day. and then call again...but this time DONT leave a voice message....why? think punsihment reward.

If she still doesnt call back? wait two days...if she hasnt contacted you or answered your calls by this stage then Im pretty sure that you did something wrong at the meeting location...which you need to figure out. Then just next her and move on.

Dont linger around the one girl for weeks if she hasnt contacted you. Your better than that.

When she DOES answer and what to talk about

Its important that the first phone call does the following:

- Take her back into the state she was in that night. When you got her number it was night, she was socially vibed, she was drinking etc...you need to make her feel like she did when she was interested in you. I liek to talk about things that happened during that night:

"remeber that guy that was dancing so crazy"

"I cant believe you fell for that practical joke...your such a cute dork!"

- be mindful of the "fading effect"...she will have lost some interst for you come the first phone so you need to start with building interest...before starting with comfort.

- DONT ask her out on the first phone call....just talk about random stuff...stories..blah blah blah.

- Be the first to finish the phone call..."hey I gotta go because im metting my mate for coffee, but ill talk to you later"

These are just some of the basics that I teach in bootcamp...there is actually a whole lot more to phone game than this but this will help you get started anyway.

Good Luck

How to Structure a Killer Story

2008-02-14T15:48:00.002+11:00

Storytelling is the essence of Limestone Lifestylists

We actually devote a part of the bootcamp to teaching students how to write out stories. Ask any of our former students about them and they will say its GOLD. Former student "Felix" actually said it was the best part of the bootcamp.

Anyway...on to the stories...

The idea with all stories is to be as natural as possible...or a better description would be to make them sound natural when you tell them so delivery is critical. Delivery must be practised after you learn to get the structure sorted out. We'll get to that in a second.

The Structure

There are three main parts to any story, routine, etc etc...the beginning, middle and ending.

First you have the lead in or hook which is the beginning.

The bulk of the story...or the middle...is the body. Thats where you will structure the majority of your dhv spikes and the stories information.

The ending is critical to capping of the story. We'll talk about that in a second as well.

The Material

So the first thing to do is choose your topic.

The material ...or topic you choose must be girl relevant. Dont bother talking about cars when we know most girls arent into stories about cars...topics like travel, adventure, fashion, dancing, socialising etc etc are always the best.

The Beginning

The start of your story is the clincher to getting the girls attention.

This is where you start with the lead in based on the topic you have chosen above. IT MUST BE RELATED TO THE TOPIC. The lead in most of the time can be a question...

"Have you guys ever been to South America? The coolest thing happened to me while i was there..."

Notice how the above lead in developed interest in travelling and then catches attention by saying the "coolest thing happened". This generates the interest; she will WANT to listen to your story.

Sometimes a lead in can also simply be "That reminds me..." or "Check this Out.." but only if you have her attention constantly in the set...this may depend on the social vibes of the situation...drunk girls at night clubs for example will be harder to get their attention because of the social vibe. So plan various lead ins for your story if required.

In saying that you may also need toadjust your body language, tonality and energy to suit your requirements as well. I like to use lots of energy when i say "Guess what happened tome last weekend"...it allows me to get her attention and hold it long enough to get to the nitty gritty of the story.

The Middle

the middle is the body of the story...it is where you describe the events.

You need:
-Events
-Demonstrations of High Value (DHV spikes)
-Unanswered questions.
-Detailed Character and Event Information
-Delete unneccessary info

First of all you need to write down ...IN POINT FORM...the events of the story.

EG
- We got on the train to the city
- We got off the train and walked to darling harbour
- I was walking a girl and her friends walk next to us we staretd chatting
- She commented on my shirt and siad how much she loved it
- They changed there plans to come out and hang out with us...
- But shewasnt my type and i wanted to get out of there but i was trying to be nice about it.
- BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

get the idea...

Next you start highlighting the dhv's in the story...the above example shows preselectiona nd social proof.

If your story hasnt got what you want you need to emphasise points that will show value...sometimes you can add your own spikes where you need them but i dont recommend you lie...

Lying will cause incongruency...

Anyway...next you want leave unanswered questions in your story.

For example with the following DHV spike;

Dont say "I went to pick up my girl friend because she is a model and she wanted a lift to her audition"

instead you should say "I picked up my girlfriend to take her to her audition"

This does 2 things.

1. Your not bragging...which is a dhv already because it shows you have confidence and you dont need to brag.

2. the unanswered question will cause her to think ..."was his girlfriend an actress or something"....which is where the DHV spike is working!

3. It will bait HER into asking..."was she an actress..." "no she's a model...but anyway...so we are driving over...blah blah blah"...this creates a forced indicator of interest effect...

See how the above examples are creating interest!!!!

Then you want to add you your point form of events the detailed information.

What colour was the car...how hot was it that day...what was the wind like...the key to the detailed information is FEELINGS and EMOTIONS. We'll get to that in a second as well.

Lastly, you want to go through your point form structure and delete an useless info that you dont need. Unneccessary info will only cause her to get bored and possibly lose interest.

The Ending

The ending of the story MUST link back to the lead in..or the point to the story.

It can be in the form of a punchline for funny stories, or soem kind of point or moral for serious and/or informative stories or heartwarming stories etc.

Also you must make sure that there are no details left out that are required...the story must be clean in the sense it must start and finish...if the girls say..."...and then what happened" or some variation...you just blew the whole effect of the story. If that happens just redirect and stack toyour next thread, routine or story.

But you should always make sure that the story finishes on point or punchline.

Delivery

After you have done the above you should rewrite the story in essay form and practise it until it is congruent. In fornt of a mirror, in the shower, on the way to work...on your friends, family, cousins, the pizza delivery guy...keep practising.

Delivery should vary the energt, body language, tonailty etc...Vary Postures and tones of Voice. Dont make it too animated that she gets burnt out from it but also dont make it not animated enough that she gets bored...you want her attention and the delivery is the best way to do.

Make sure that the earlier you use a story, the shorter it should be. Attraction stories should be between 30 seconds and 2 minutes. Comfort up to about 4-5 minutes...deep rapport can go on for longer.

The idea with story telling as that the more you practise the less need there is to write out your story.

I dont write stories down any more because I can now think of a story and structure it the way I want it and still come of naturally instantaneously while im in set.

Thats where YOU want to be.

Good Luck.

Variable Self Esteem

2008-02-14T08:16:00.003+11:00

I had a question on my forum:

Probably this past week or so I've had really low self esteem where i dread interacting with people, If i've half made plans for a day 2 i will keep putting it off because I just know it will go poorly, or I'll be at tafe and say hardly nothing to nobody the whole day. Where as the other 40% of the time where I have a considerably higher self esteem I enjoy ineractions and am generally considered one of the fun loving class clowns. Also the further I stay in a low self esteem downward spiral the harder it is for me to come out of it. Can you sugest anything, reading material, words of wisdom etc, that could possiblly help?

The problem of variable self esteem effects alot of people.

It then turns to confusion...."I dont get, I was ok last time, now i feel like shit?"

Then it turns to frustration..."AWE fuck this, I dont want to do this anymore..."

Some of the best pick up artists on Limestone have felt like that from time to time.

What causes it? This can be many things. We discuss these in our bootcamps but here is a quick outline.

Expectation - Alot of the time we put expectations on our selves to succeed. When we dont succeed for some reason we begin to put ourselves down subconsciously. Thats when it can reflect in our self esteem. There is nothing that can help you with this...its more or less a "limited belief" that you have.

Motivation - lack of motivation can also effect your self esteem. Usually motivation issues are caused because of a conflict of not knowing what you want. Not knowing what you want leads to lack of ambition. No ambition leads to no motivation. I like to always have some kind of direction in my life whether it be with women or with any other part of my personal life. Make a list of goals.

Mood - the above question sounds like this partly...mood also effects your inner game. Some people have a tendency to get in a bad mood very easily and not feel like interacting. For others its alot harder to suffer from mood problems. I think one of the best things to do to keep a good fun loving mood is to always think positive. We all know it but how many of us ACTUALLY do it. Its hard...I always like to have things around me that will make me think positive. I like to keep lots of pictures hanging on my wall at home that will remind me of fun and happy times. Listening to music is always a popular one too. Choose what will be good for YOU.

However the main cause of all self esteem issues....

Fear - Fear is as we quote in our bootcamps "(Fear) is the body's natural, emotional and hardwired urge to protect itself..." In the above example it could be caused from intimidation by some women, and not as much by others...that would suggest a Fear of Non Accceptance or Rejection...getting out on a day 2 with a woman and failing...Fear of Failure. Im thinking intimidation has a big big part of it however which is causing the variable self esteem...

In hindsight one who has variable self esteem still has a fear just like someone who has low self esteem, so you have to treat it the same way....get out there and face your fears...

...if you feel like flaking on a girl because your esteem is low...force yourself to to go...

...when your at tafe or uni or out walking, force yourself to say hello to people...

Its hard without seeing the above example face to face or hearing more about the problem because inner game is so deep...THERE IS NO MAGIC PILL.

I cant get down to the nuts and bolts of it though because Im not a psychiatrist. Im a seductionist, everything I do is based on feeling.

So...resourcesthat can help?

I can give you a whole bunch of books and CD's to read...but that would be a waste of time.

There are a couple of things that can help...

The NLP seminar that I am co instructing with Scooby and led by Bushi next month will help you IMMENSELY. Bushi will be going into anchoring and how to anchor positive feelings into you, the circle of excellence, changing limiting beliefs which is one of the problems you have...and the value for money for this seminar is worth GOLD.

Some other resources I think you should try is some subliminal audio. I think personally the very best audio to get your hands on is by a guy called Paul Scheele. But there are many others that you can also try on the web...just do a search through google.

Peace out

NLP Seminar

2008-02-13T12:34:00.000+11:00

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• Gain more confidence in social situations
• Develop a practical understanding of how you are creating your own reality
• Learn how to REALLY apply anchoring
• Increase your skill-set
• Discover how to be more socially aware and confident around women
• Develop engaging story-telling abilities
• Identify and eliminate your limiting beliefs
• Learn more efficient qualifying techniques
• Gain absolute clarity on your beliefs and values
• Develop increased flexibility in communicating with different people
• You’ll learn how to create, loop, project and distort realities to take people on an emotional journey

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Im back and Im busy!

2008-02-13T10:54:00.000+11:00

Hey y'all

its been a while since i have posted.

Im working hard to get the Limestone Bootcamps Firing up...and guess what...they are.

Our last Bootcamp was awesome...very exciting. Scoobs and I both "Shaked and Baked" LOL

Anyway, now we are gearing up for our next seminar, a NLP seminar that we are doing together with Bushi who is a licensed NLP practitioner. The seminar is on the 16th March so its right around the corner.

You guys should book now if you want a spot.

Anyway...Im aiming to start posting more often here and provide heaps of information which will just be a taste of what we offer in our Bootcamps.

peace out

The Myth of Natural Game

2007-07-21T11:46:00.000+10:00

This is a touchy subject for many guys in the community....so i cant wait to see some opinions flying around!!! LOL...yes...Im evil!

First off let me say that this post is in NO way ridiculing those who preach the type of game that we know in the community as "Natural" game...

Nor is it designed to preach that "routine" based game is better than others or that any other type of game for that matter is better or worse.

The purpose of this post is to open up our minds to understand the truth about social dynamics as I believe it to be.

Lets first look at the term "natural"

Natural; adjective; to be in accordance with nature; Normal.

keyword...."normal"

Secondly lets look at the term "nature"

Nature; noun; the typical qualities or character of a person or thing.

keyword..."typical"

In reference to natural game, it can be said that gaming naturally is the social interaction with people in a way that is typical or normal.

but what is normal or typical.

Obviously we say that openers like:

"Hi, Im Chachi, and you are?"

is an example of a natural approach...why? because we are used to doing it for so long.

All of a sudden a man named Erik Von Markovik introduces opinion openers where we use an indirect way of introducing conversation to a potential partner....and what is the result? people debating which is better.

Many people in the community debating that Natural game is better and Routine based game...whether it be direct or indirect game...is a waste of time.

This is a falacy...it is useless arguement that defeats the purpose of social dynamics.

Think about this for a second; a hundred or so years ago everybody were walking around this lovely planet of ours....and all of a sudden an invention was thrown into society known as an automobile....ever heard of it?

yeh sure...everyone knows what a car is...we drive around in them everyday....

but back then they didnt. Back then people were thinking? What the fuck? thats not normal? thats not natural?

but today cars are very much a part of natural life...

if tomorrow someone invented a flying car? Would that seem natural?

What about if everyone flew around in cars for the nest 100 years? It would then be natural...

because it has become "normal"..."typical"...."natural"

Back to social dynamics some people look at Routine based game and think...thats not natural...why?....because it is new.

In time, routine based game will also become a natural part of social dynamics.

Even 30-40 years ago...it would be "normal" for a guy to approach a girl and ask her to dance. These days it is not a common practice because of the evolution of social interactions.

Times change...and so do we.

Understand this....regardless of the type of openers, routines, gambits etc that are used in social dynamics.....THEY ALL SUIT THE SAME PURPOSE.

OPINION OPENERS VS NATURAL OPENERS

Whether you ask a woman for her opinion on a certain topic...or go straight into the interaction with natural conversation like "Hi, how are you?"...

They both suit the same purpose....to begin the interaction.

ROUTINES VS CONVERSATIONAL

Whether you run games and tests and other forms of routines....or you just begin communicating with conversational topics and stories...

They both suit the same purpose....to escalate the interaction.

Let it be clear....as my good friend Harlequin has said in previous posts...."a sarge" came from the name of a bloody cat....

It is a "social interaction"...thus...

The purpose of social dynamics; natural or otherwise; is to escalate a social interaction with a person of sexual, emotional and/or physical interest.

Stop thinking; is natural better than routines. I laugh when people say natural game is better and similarly I laugh when people say routine based game is better.

The both suit the same purpose gentlemen...and ladies of course!

Calibrate the type of game that you need depending on the different situation you are in and FOCUS ON ESCALATING THE INTERACTION.

they rest will...as they say...come naturally!

yours naturally
Chach

Cultural Differences - How Women Are Different

2007-07-20T08:42:00.000+10:00

It has been discussed and argued that women are the same all over the world...That all women find the same things attractive...

This is the falacy that has been created by Mystery, Style, and whoever else you want to name....

It is utter nonsense; and was created on the basis of shear marketing to make guys who have low confidence and self esteem issues; like nerds and geeks that are referred to in The Game; believe that they can get any woman they want by using the same techinques over and over again.

While it is true that attraction is not a choice....

The factors (or values) that emotionally create attraction ARE a choice...they are female choices.

Probably the only reason that women are different all over the world are CULTURAL DIFFERENCES. The way women are brought up, their social and family environments all shape the way that women feel emotionally about certain factors that influence attraction.

Attraction Switches

While I believe that the 3 attraction switches taught by many in the community are the main factors that women find attractive all over the world, I still refuse to believe that the are the ONLY factors that women find attractive.

Every woman find different values attractive in different ways. Teaching that there are only 3 main attraction switches is nonsense.

In saying that, this is a topic raised in my thread on Attraction Switches. Please read that for more information on attraction switches.

Global Differences

Yes ...Women are different all over the world in women from different countries; Australia, America, Germany, Sweden, UK. And it is dictated merely from the cultural differences instilled in our societies.

While some of the time, women are mostly the same and using any method WILL work, I believe that holding the idea that women are the same everywhere can be self limiting.

Changing your approach strategies, attraction methods and comfort methods should all be calibrated depending on the values of the women you meet.

One example that scooby and I have sort of discovered and been looking into a bit more recently is strippers. In america Strippers are seen as "high value"; coming from the teachings of Mystery himself and even current mPUA's who believe going out with a stripper is having high social proof and preselection.

However in Australia, being a stripper; or even going out with a stripper; is viewed as being low value, sleazy and sometimes (as i have been told before by many women and men alike) disgusting.

Another example; if you want to llok at the differences between women in Euorpe compared to Australia; is the sexual freedom in europe that dictates why a direct method (i.e. badboy) works better in Europe. Take Amsterdam for instance....you cant tell me that women in Amsterdam are the same as women in Australia. Complete cultural difference. Thus the requirement for a different stretgy to attract the women there.

Interstate Differences

This is where women start to differ more noticeably.

Women in Sydney are different to women in Melbourne and similarly in Adelaide, Goldcoast, Perth etc etc.

The cultural differences between cities is more a fine tuning of social environments.

Of course I should make it clear again that this is not necessarily the case for every woman.

From my personal experience I have found that women in Sydney are usually very work and career orientated. They tend to have a formal approach when meeting people and socialising and meeting Sydney women often turn out to feel very much like an interview than just a social interaction. Conversational rapport is usually the best way to demonstarte value. They usually find a man attractive who is ambitious, intellegent and conversationl.

Women in melbourne seem work orientated yet still very social and laid back. I also find them very cautious women; using negs for example on women in Melbourne can sometimes get you blown out and mistaken as insults even at the best of times. they find classy men attractive, men who are well groomed and corporate types who know how to relax and have fun.

Women in the Gold Coast are much more laid back and easy going. They thrive on fun and excitement. Games and routines are the best way to demonstrate value, while using rapport will bore thenm to death. they find the surfer type of guy attractive; risk takers and adventure seekers.

Once again the reason to these differences is their cultural and social environments.

Inter-Suburb Differences

This is where the major differencts in cultural environments start to change. Especially in sight of nationality and background.

In sydney, how often do you see guys from the western suburbs dating women from the north shore or the eastern suburbs of bondi and coogee?

Speaking in terms of nationalities, how often do you see a girl or guy of lebanese decent dating someone of anglosaxon australian decent from the eastern suburbs?

How often do you find someone who is Italian or Greek dating someone who is Asian?

The catch here is it is not just women....it is men as well....

People like to be segregated in Sydney. Obviously not living in any other city in Australia I cant speak for other cities but Im assuming it is similar in Melbourne, Brisbane etc etc.

This is where the main cultural differences act to effect the attraction switches in women.

Noting these differences it is NOT the case that you cant meet women (or men for the ladies reading this) in any other case....but these are the factors that effect HOW you strategise your interaction with them.

When I meet women who are from a similar background to myself I demonstrate high value through discussion about family and my italian heritage and hit common interest points.

When I meet women from the eastern suburbs or north shore I demonstrate value through my adventurous and fun side of me.

Once I get into comfort; which is usually only after 10-20 mins or so....then I combine both...because her defenses have been lowered and rapport building then takes place.

This is not to say that women are completely different...but there are differences....and keeping those differences in mind will only reduce your limits and increase your beliefs.

In Conclusion just remember that every woman is different, and you SHOULDN'T stick to one and only method that was apparantly delievered on a stone tablet. There are NO rules in social dynamics. Sometimes the points I have highlighted above may be completely different to what you may come across....but thats not to say they dont exist.

Follow the leader - the universal sticking point

2007-07-07T09:03:00.000+10:00

Often we talk about what our sticking points are in the field. Approach anxiety is one of the biggest. Some guys build too much comfort too soon. Some guys have problems hooking. Some guys have problems with inner game.

However I have seen a universal sticking point. It's a sticking point that almost every aPUA has. It's "follow the leader" syndrome. What is that? Simple. Its when we read too much material and take that as scripture.

It's when guys say "nah that cant be right, because so and so says its like this"

This is painfully disappointing. Guys get so hung up on what Mystery, Style, Tyler Durden and the like have written that they refuse to open their minds and try their own ideas. Yes, work that has been field tested and published through ebooks, seminars and whatever are correct....but that doesn't mean any thing else CANT work. Thinking otherwise is limiting your own potential. Putting it bluntly...its horse s*&t.

"You MUST to go from A1 to A2 to A3...."....is horse s&*t

"Building commonalities should only be used in comfort..." ....is horse s&*t

"If you dont use an FTC you will get blown out of set..."....is horse s&*t

"If you dont follow the 3 second rule; you will not hook the set..."...is horse s&*t

Im not saying that the statements above are false....what im saying is that IT IS NOT scripture...you dont HAVE to follow the rules to get results....

Sometimes you have to think outside the box...

Remember...before the community...GUYS STILL GOT LAID!

So just bear in mind....when you have an urge to say "but so and so says this, and so and so says that; try to open your mind and think outside the box...it will help you to unleash your own potential.

peace

Transformers

2007-07-07T08:56:00.000+10:00

Watched It

Loved It

I wanna watch it again.

Great film. If you havent seen it yet go watch it.

I grew up on transformers so it really kicked up the child within for me. Check out the trailer below:

The Power of Thought

2007-06-23T10:57:00.000+10:00

I have been reading the book "The secret" and it has opened my mind as to how the Power of thought can really change your life.

Ive been thinking more and more about negative vs positive thought and how your thoughts attract more of the the same into our lives.

I know some people are very sceptical about the law of attraction. And I must tell you that for those people, that is the reason that it wont work. You need to believe in it, to reap the rewards.

it is an awesome guide for inner game, and helps you to really find yourself.

Yoda hit the nail on the head when he told "Do or Do Not...there is no try" You need to believe in yourself, and believe that your thoughts will become your reality.

If you think that your afraid to approach, then you WILL be afraid to approach.
If you think you are in debt, then you WILL be in debt.
If you think you are tired, then you WILL be tired.
If you think you are a nerd, then you WILL be a nerd.
If you think you have more to learn, then you WILL always need to learn more.

The power of thought is amazing.

Last night I was tired after a long week at work. But on the way home I visualised myself being full of energy and on fire. I WANTED to be full of energy, then I THOUGHT and VISUALISED being full of energy. I really felt myself in the moment being full of energy. When I met up with Scooby...he thought I was under the influence! I WAS full of energy. When we walked into "Bungalow 8" I automatically opened the first chick i saw as she came in behind us. I didn't even think about it....I just did it. The night turned sour because of the cold unfortunately. Not many girls out. But even though it was a disappointing night sarging, when we left I was STILL full of energy. Scooby was amazed. He didnt understand why I wanted to go home when I was still so full of energy!

believe me gents. The power of thought is the most powerful power any human can possess. Embrace your thoughts as reality. What you think....will become your reality.

First Bootcamp a Success

2007-06-19T21:35:00.000+10:00

The last few weeks have been devastatingly hectic for Scoobs and I.

We worked very hard to have the first Limestone Bootcamp ready.

And it went very well.

We only had a small bunch of students however im glad that it went according to plan. Im looking forward to the next bootcamp.

You can view the training schedule at here

Easy Voice Projection Practice

2007-06-04T08:39:00.000+10:00

It is a simple exercise you can do at home. This is something I will be teaching at my bootcamps.

1. Get a stereo or radio.
2. Start to read a rehearsed speech out loud like you are talking to someone. It could be from a book, or some seduction material or whatever.
3. Start with the volume of the stereo OFF.
4. Then repeat the speech with the volume of the stereo on low.
5. Keep repeating the speech and increasing the volume of the stereo.

Things to keep an eye on.

- the volume and depth versus the pitch of your voice.
- speak from your diaphragm. Feel your diaphragm by placing your fingers just under your sternum. If you a speaking correctly you will feel your diaphragm vibrate.

Also try recording your speech with the various volume of the music from the stereo in the background to see how your projecting your voice.

Try doing this over and over until you are happy with your voice projection.

Comfort begets Complacency

2007-06-02T12:51:00.000+10:00

I have heard a lot of problems from guys that when they get into set they eject soon after....

I believe its based on a fear of non-acceptance....anyway...

There is also another side of the coin from that....

Have you ever been out....have a couple of warm up teases and then find what you believe to be a good set....it hooks....

and then you stay with that set all night?

If she is what your after, and your going for the one night stand then cool....

but what happens (and I know its happened to all of us so dont lie!) when you look back on that set and you think to your self "They werent that good?"

So why the fuck did you stay in that set?

simple...

Comfort begets Complacency

you get lazy....or is it more like worry?

Your thinking "why would I risk rejection with another set, when i can stay here where I am already accepted into the set"

This is the other side of the coin...

some guys eject because they fear non-acceptance

some guys DONT eject because they fear rejection from someone else....

Moral of this post: Keep it in your mind that you are there to meet people....

You must find the courage to eject the set (when required) in order to accomplish your goals...

If you feel during set that you dont really wanna be there....then get out....and get into the next set.

Limestone Bootcamp right around the corner!

2007-05-30T15:09:00.000+10:00

June 16th - 17th, The first Limstone Bootcamp.

Dont miss out.

Check It Out

Common Interest Theory

2007-05-23T22:20:00.000+10:00

This is my latest theory that I have been working on as of late. As I have discussed in previous posts, there are 3 types of interest/attraction points, emotional interest, sexual interest and reciprocated interest. Amongst these I find that using commonalities between you and your target help to build each type of interest depending on the commonality.

Australian women really become attracted to guys who have common interest to themselves. In fact all women do, however I find it that Australian women relate better and become alot more comfortable with guys when common interests are shared. One thing I have repeated like a broken recod is that Australian women are highly insecure and emotional, and it is important for them to be comfortable with you as soon as possible.

Australian women will almost always open really easy. Rarely will you get harshly blown out of set. They are polite and will respond to you as a matter of good conversation. However they are very hard to build interest/attraction with as they rarely like being outside of their social comfort circle. This is why I build up as much common interest with them as I can early in set. This starts their buying temperature and gives me a solid foundation to continue pumping their buying temperature through humour and other DHV stories and routines.

Common interests are really easy to find. They usually revolve around hobbies, music, movies, etc.

So what I do is do some minor screening (qualifying) before I start to DHV.

Ill use a series of screening questions in set to decide how I will DHV myself to my target. These screening questions should only be very small and shouldn't be used with the intention of qualifying.

As a real easy and basic example, lets use movies as an example interest. We all know the "I Like" game...where you just go back and forth with your target list movies or music that you like...

well what I will do is ask my target if she is into movies....If her response suggests that she loves moves alot then Ill stack into the I Like game using movies as the topic.

This exposes one of out common interests and allows me to set up a platform to base the rest of the attraction building sequence.

Like I said this is a very basic example.

Another way to build commonalities is to get introduced as early as you can. Ask her her name and then from then on use her name as often as you can in set.

"So Sarah, what do YOU do for fun?"

This sets up a kind of commonaly between you like you know each other for longer than you already have.

A tip when asking her name though...dont shake her hand and say "nice to meet you"....just ask her name and then reply "Im Malibu.." Ive always found that shaking hands like that sets up a real formal approach. You can do this during the day...but dont do it at night....when girls go out they like to be entertained not formal.

If a girl offers you her hand to shake it then I suggest doing something that my wing Scooby developed into his game...."Sorry, I dont shake hands....I hug" then open your arms out and pull her in to hug you. This little piece is real money too...credit to Scooby for that one. It also helps to initiate kino.

The good thing about this kind of strategy of building and developing common interests is:

1. It allows you to be yourself and setup an attraction strategy based on you being you and her being her.

2. It also ties in some minor screening (qualification).

3. It is good to use when sarging direct instead of indirect.

Beware...you still need to make sure that you develop proper attarction before you begin to screen her properly. You still need to use active disinterest, frame control, kino techniques, story telling and routines etc as you normally would to build attraction.

Furthermore, a negative aspect to this theory is that you would be coming off a little direct. Personally thats my gaming style anyway...Start off indirect and then turn more direct. Personally I believe that even when you open indirectly, women still know that you are trying to pick them up. They are not stupid. However if you do not intend to sarge directly and you want to take the indirect approach then you need to consider this when implementing this theory.

Living your Own Expectations

2007-05-19T11:18:00.000+10:00

When we all started in game we didnt have expectations of our selves. We just went out, keen to learn to "shot the shit". We always wanted to go out and numberclose and/or kissclose looking for that potential fuck close and we never put too much pressure on ourselves. I mean, if we had a bad night...so what...we are newbies....we have an excuse to do poorly on every odd occasion. We dont let it stress ourselves too much.

However as we grow...and improve our game, we start building more and more expectations of what we SHOULD be achieving. This can be a negative aspect and can destroy some peoples game. A very close friend of mine almost got out of the game for this very reason....he felt so much pressure from what he thought he SHOULD be achieving.

The first thing you need to ask yourself is "whos expectation is it?"

Is it your's?

Or is it the people around you? Your wingmen?

If you know that you are stopping yourself from your own expectations then yes you need to do something about it. YOU need to take action and balem yourself...but dont break yourself for it.

I have personally felt this pressure. You sometimes go through stages thinking...damn...i should be kiss closing every night I go out....or at least number closing. But sometimes it may not happen. Sometimes your having an off night.

The worst part is that you start to make excuses for you having an off night.

There werent an good looking girls I wanted to open..

The set was too big and they had boyfrends...

blah blah blah....

That is when deep down you think to yourself....thats a lie...your bullshiting yourself. And you feel like crap for the rest of the weekend because you have a belief that you should be doing better than what your doing.

Putting expectations on yourself and living the expectations are two very very different things. You need to be able to have goals and ambitions, but if it doesnt happen you have to still believe in yourself....maintain those goals.

You want to push your boundarys and push yourself to the edge...BUT NOT OVER THE EDGE.

Remember...even some of the best PUA's in the world will occasionally have an off night.

Dont destory yourself with your own ambitions.

New Deja Vu Opener - Awesome!

2007-05-19T11:12:00.000+10:00

Me and Fiz come up with this awesome piece last night while we shot the shit at the Roxy.

It will work in almost every situation to break the ice and comes off as somewhat of a low intensity direct opener.

Walk Up to a HB/set

PUA: Hey guys do you believe in Deja Vu?

HB: yes/no/im not wearing underwear

then turn around talk a couple of shirt steps away...

then turn around and walk back in and say....

PUA: Hey guys do you believe in Deja Vu?

tried this last nite and they girl I used it on laughed so much that SHE gave ME a high 5!!!

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Some ideas for stacking:

If they laugh there heads off.....sit down next to them and say "cool, you guys have a sense of humour...Im BLAH BLAH, who are you?"

If they dont laugh then neg them for not getting the joke....

enjoy

Malibu’s Basic Rules of Humour

2007-05-19T11:09:00.000+10:00

This is a personal list of what to do and more importantly what NOT to do in set if you want to evoke humour correctly.

1. Relate your material

This is the number one rule when trying to be funny. The best way to make people laugh at your jokes is too relate the material to them in a way they will understand it. This relates to age, common interests, nationality and background etc. This is how humour evokes feeling. It links common interests between you and your target/s.

2. Don’t take the joke to far.

If you are going to be cocky funny in set, don’t go too far with the same joke.

For example,

HB: What’s your name?
PUA: Antonio Banderas....Dance with me! (Spanish accent)
HB: LOL...seriously...what’s your name?

At this point....tell her your name....if you keep being cocky funny you go from being cocky funny....to being a clown....girls like cocky funny....they don’t like clowns.

3. A joke is funny once

A joke is funny once or twice depending on the joke and how funny it is. But be warned, don’t wear it out. Using it too often with the same set of people will only promote needy behaviour.

4. Personal jokes are not funny to everyone

If you shared a funny personal joke with Bob, chances are Bill won’t find it funny. So don’t use it to make Bill laugh!

5. DO NOT LOOK FOR A REACTION

Never, ever, ever, ever look for a reaction from the target of your joke. This projects needy behaviour.

6. DO NOT LAUGH AT YOUR OWN JOKES

Never, ever, ever, ever look for a laugh at your own jokes. Again, this projects needy behaviour.

7. Don’t repeat the punch line

This is the same as seeking a reaction, and also projects needy behaviour. Even if people don’t laugh at your humour or don’t find you funny, repeating the punch line is like shooting yourself in the foot.

8. Don’t put down or insult your wingmen

As discussed previously, doing tis will DLV yourself and your wingmen.

9. Don’t use toilet humour

Toilet humour will not make people, especially girls, laugh. It’s disgusting, so don’t use it.

10. Don’t make fun of yourself

Don’t do this unless you are extremely high value, otherwise, even if people find you funny, you will still be demonstrating low value.

Back from Melbourne

2007-04-24T21:33:00.000+10:00

Just had a weekend away in Melbourne with Scooby and Whisper.

Had an awesome time. Got a decent amount of sarging in too which was good.

Went to transport on the Friday night. Lots of babes. Ended up pulling a friend of mine who was in town for her work. While I was there I also met a police officer! Ive been waiting for ages to meet a hot female copper and when I finally do I got dragged away. She was actually a crime scene investigator. Hot...ouch! I wanted to see her hand cuffs! Needed a wing though and I was on my own at this stage. All three chicks in the set where responding nicely but scoobs was upstairs bitching at me to get my arse up there! Oh well...still had fun!

Saturday night hit The Long Room. Awesome venue. I was with my ex girlfriend this night so I was really sarging. But Still finished with a happy ending as she stayed with me at the hotel that night.

Sunday night went to Star bar with a guy in the community from down there, BhzMafia and then met up with another mate of his PUA. Cool guys. Had a lot of fun with them. The venue kicked off really well at about 10.30 but died in the arse when the band started playing at about midnight. Not good for sarging after that. But There was this one chick....that I met while having a smoke...not a hot chick by my standards but she was cool and I liked the social proof....so I kissclosed her after a talked to her for 10 minutes. Nice!...she did have hot tits though dispite the rest of her.

Cant wait to go down again.

I always enjoy melbourne.

Does it ALWAYS have to be about SEX?

2007-04-19T09:55:00.001+10:00

I thought of this last night whilst trying to get to sleep....

Thats when I do most of my thinking!!! LOL

But I realised something....

Im flying down to melbourne this weekend for 4 days....while Im down there I will be seeing my ex girlfriend who I still remain friends with.

And I cant wait to see her.

I really CANT WAIT to see her.

The funny thing is....she doesnt want to have sex with me. She feels that it hurts her emotionally (and physically cos of my huge.....ego! LOL) everytime we sleep together and then I fly back to Sydney.

But she agreed to spend one of the nights with me....just to cuddle and shit....

and thats the thing...im looking forward to doing that...and not have sex....hard to believe for anyone who knows how fucking horny I get!

Now Im thinking at this stage....sex doesnt matter...who cares whether you get laid or not.....yet guys are constantly on the look out for more sex...myself included....

Now I thought more on the topic....maybe is it becauseI have already had heaps of sex with her and thats why I dont care about it so much this time...

Maybe?

But now I look back....on all my recent sarges....the women I have met....and kissed...and FUCKED!! And the one thing that stands out in my mind when I remember those women is holding them....cuddling and carressing.

Sound Gay? Fuck No....

Sex IS NOT THE GOAL....rather...THE TRUE EMOTIONAL EMBRACE of a woman is what we should really be striving for....the feeling of equality between man and woman....an equal and MUTUAL RESPECT.

That is what we should set our standards and goals towards....

On that note....Im fucking horny....catch ya's later

peace

Attraction Switches and DHVing

2007-04-17T22:55:00.000+10:00

Ok…we all remember what it was like as an AFC…

“dude, what do I say to her?....What if she doesn’t like me?.....what if laughs at me?”

Yes….the eternal battle we all once struggled with to impress a girl, to create value….to paint yourself as a HIGH VALUE guy….some one that she will BENEFIT from. That’s the purpose of a demonstration of high value otherwise known throughout the community as a DHV.

A DHV is any gambit/technique/tactic that TRIGGERS one or more of a woman’s attraction switches.

Note the key word….triggers....the purpose of a DHV as I said is to show a woman that you are of value to her. There is no effect if you use a dhv that the woman doesn’t not find appealing. Every woman is different and some women find some things appealing and other things that are not appealing. However, it is not as black and white as that. There is grey scale in between.

Attraction Switches

Thus far most of us have know about the three main attraction switches being preselection, leader of men and protector of loved ones. Even more are discussed in the Mystery Method Bootcamps.

I have a different take on attraction switches. I don’t believe that they are simply that easy to “demonstrate and the girl will find you attractive”. From my experience I find women all have a different opinion on what they find attractive and what they don’t find attractive. We all know that. There are the basic attraction switches that the majority of women find attractive and the ones that some women find attractive and some are neutral in feeling about. Then there are attraction switches that ALL women want but require other switches to be triggered for them to hold any value.

Confused?

Sorry….

Lets take a further look.

Attraction switches can be broken down into three categories:

- primary
- secondary
- tertiary

The basic "primary" attraction switches are:

• Pre-selection
• Leadership Abilities
• Protector
• Confidence

These values are switches that a MAJORITY of women will find HIGHLY attractive.

Then you have other attraction switches that I like to call "secondary":

• Intelligence
• Humour
• Playfulness
• Emotional
• Bravery and risk-taking

These are switches that SOME women have and some don’t....they can be HIGHLY attractive or NOT depending on the woman. These switches may be hard to find sometimes especially for newbies into the field. Guys would need to calibrate their game well to spot these.

My method of building interest is a mixture of building interest and screening. I do not follow a strict A2 then A3 phase….I blend them together. One technique I use is using screening questions (only one or two) before I start to DHV in order to suss out any secondary attraction switches. And then I attempt to trigger them with any of the DHV stories or routines congruent to my identity. However, you don’t always have to screen before you DHV, instead you can simply spike your stories or routines with secondary values in attempt to trigger the appropriate switch.

Lastly there are "tertiary” switches. These switches are more male “characteristics” than actual switches in a woman’s circuitry.

• Looks and Physical Appearance
• Fashion Sense and Grooming
• Charm and Chivalry

These switches are ones that ALL woman find attractive however in order to successfully demonstrate yourself as high value you need to have at least triggered one or more primary and secondary switches.

If you notice these switches you will find that using them, in order to trigger a woman’s switch in these areas you will need to have either:
a. A lot of the particular value i.e really good looks; and/or
b. A lot of time with the woman to trigger

Demonstrations of High Value

EVERYONE is high value...guys just have DIFFERENT KINDS of high value.

It is true that some guys may have a stronger identity than other men, but I do not feel that this is because of a mans value. A mans identity relates to his frame.

Men just need to learn how to project their in a way that appeals to women. The best way to do this is by using congruent material.

Now DHV’s take various forms.

First of all there are stories that we can tell about ourselves that contain DHV SPIKES in them to trigger a woman’s attraction switch. A spike is merely a piece of information embedded in the story that displays high value. However it is important to note that it is NOT what the WHOLE story should be about. But Ill cover this further when I discuss storytelling.

Other DHV’s forms can be any of the following:

- Stories (as discussed)
- Games
- Tests
- Cold Reads
- Magic Tricks and ESP routines
- Social Proof
- Your Person (looks, fashion sense etc)

Now since there are DHV’s on one side of the scale, there also exist DLV’s on the other side of the scale….demonstrations of low value. If you understand the above then it should be pretty obvious what low value means.

One thing that Sinn and Future explain in the MM interview series CD Volume 3 on Storytelling and Humour, is that DLV pits WILL KILL YOUR GAME. So true. They also go on to explain that how the whole purpose of our Game is NOT DLV. Its that simple….you want to project yourself as a high value guy to make her want to hang out with you so it should be obvious that if you DLV then she wont want to hang out with you.

Things such as the following are all examples of DLV’s because not only do they not sub-communicate any of the above attraction switches they also sub-communicate the complete opposite.
• Neediness
• Trying too hard
• stuttering while talking
• waiting for reactions from women
• slouching and other negative body language
• not listening to a woman when she talks
• trying to over demonstrate…i.e too much humour than required.
• Being stupid or immature
• Complaining and or whinging
• Being too serious
• Talking softly

There are many more, these are just a few examples from what I see often from guys, including myself at times.

Considering the above information you should now be able to search yourself for what values are truly inside you.

DON’T USE ANYTHING YOU DON’T HAVE

If you are not a leader of men then it falls on you to improve your inner game so that you become a leader of men.

Every man has the ability to demonstrate many of the values listed that will appropriately trigger a womans’s attraction switch…..but its you to you to find it.

Die Hard 4 - Cant wait!

2007-04-13T13:45:00.000+10:00

Die Hard 4.0 Trailer

Personal Goal - Fighting the Addiction

2007-04-13T09:02:00.000+10:00

Im trying to quit smoking.

Ive quit before. October 2005. I just stopped, with some help of course from patches and lozenges. But it worked. Stopped for 7 months...and then some brain explosion caused me to pick it up again.

The problem is I still enjoy the cigarette. Especially over a coffee!

But my health is becoming far more important now....and I know I have to quit again.

So Im doing it.

So far it has been two days!!!! just the start I know.

First day I didnt have a smoke all day. Yesterday I had 2...grrr

Im still gonna do it....

Types of Interest

2007-04-12T15:35:00.000+10:00

It is true that I have studied in depth the M3 model and the Mystery Method. I have been labelled by many as systematic and robotic.....I dont care! However, for those who know me, they know I am anything but robotic. Im analytical. Ill breakdown as much as I can in order to understand the meaning behind every interaction so that I can in turn internalise it as much as I can.

One if the concepts I have looked at is Attraction.

First of all, it should be noted, I do not believe that the term "attraction" is accurate, not in terms of the M3 model anyway. Attraction is created over time, and through comfort. In essence I believe that a girl has become attracted to you when she has finally decided that she wants to sleep with you. In some cases that is not until right before you sleep with her. Saying that the "attraction phase" lasts for 20-30 minutes is...as I said...inaccurate.

Instead I like to call this phase of a sarge, Interest...because thats what you are doing....your creating interest for her to get to know you further. It is much more accurate for guys to understand.

Secondly, there are more factors than simply to create interest and then screen to get a girl to sleep with you.

I believe that "interest is split up into three levels of interest:

Emotional Interest - obviously where a woman is interested in you as a potential suitor based on emotions and commonalities, then there is
Sexual Interest - where a woman is attracted physically and is interested in you as a lover, and lastly there is
Reciprocated Interest - which is the same as screening or qualifying where a woman is interested merely for the fact that you are interested in her for reasons other than physical appearance.

Emotional Interest and Sexual Interest pretty much works hand in hand, where as Reciprocated Interest or screening can be stand alone and measured seperately, however it is very much needed for you to move from meet to sex in the least amount of time possible.

If you have sexual interest and no emotional interest...it usually leads to one night lays, which is awesome, but you have trouble getting her on a Day 2 to eventually lead to a relationship.

If you have emotional interest but no sexual interest then it usually leads to LJBF (if you havent screened her enough), or long amounts of comfort before you shag, or relationship before sex scenarios.

An equal amount results in a girl who wants to fuck you.....hard....and wants to hang around.

300

2007-04-11T10:31:00.000+10:00

I just saw the new movie "300" at the Imax theatre on the weekend.

Awesome film.

For those who dont know the plot follows the story of 300 Spartan Soldiers, led by their King, battling millions of persians to prevent an evil self prclaimed human god from conquering Sparta.

The plot thinkens when the Spartan "government" prohibits the Spartan King from undertaking a battle campaign, claiming that the "gods" prohibit an such war.

However, the King feels he cannot sit by and allow such a rampage by the persians to occur.

Some of the best computer enhanced graphics I have ever seen in a movie.

A must see for all you adventure/action fans.

I rate the movie 8.5/10

Go and See it!

300 Movie Trailer

And St George lost again....fuck!

2007-04-10T14:10:00.000+10:00

It was disgraceful. This time we lost to the Sharks. And it wasn't because they played good. Cronulla played shit.....

But the dragons were even worse.

Arrrrggghhhh....so fucking frustrating watching them play sometimes.

The final Score....Crounlla Sharks 40 St George Illawarra Dragons 4

disgusting...

Why Moving Sets is important

2007-04-09T11:31:00.000+10:00

One of my theories about moving and isolating is that you need at least 2 moves from the initial meeting point. Alot of guys, including myself dont move at all. I noticed this as my sticking pont when I did the Mystery Method Bootcamp in Sydney early in March. I gamed girls well, but rarely moved them. I would always isolate within her social circle, by using my wingmen to distract and disarm the obstacles and moving my targets body language away from the set. I recently realised this was not enough. I had to move her away from her social circle....in order to bring her into my reality.

The last four weeks I have been concentrating on moving my targets away from the meeting point. After several positive reactions in set thought about anothe theory....Is 1 move enough. I analysed the times I moved a girl once. And then moved girls 2 times. I realised at least 2 moves are essential.

The first move, gets a girl away from her social circle...but not completely into yours yet. If I move a girl from her friends to the bar....her friends can still come over and take her away....and she may not resist it even if she likes you...why?....well her friends are over there...and she has just joined you at the bar.

Now lets say that from the bar, after chit chatting for a bit longer, you move her outside to the beer garden and grab a table where you can chat more. The second move, then moves her closer into your reality.....she is WITH you now. Then if her friends come to take her away....it will be harder for her friends....not impossible...but harder.....to pull her away from you.

From there, every other move after that is a bonus to keeping her in YOUR reality deeper and deeper.

A key that I find is making it noticeable to her....after you have moved her to each location....that you have moved her....she recognises that she has moved around the bar with you and suddenly it feels to her that she is there with you.....but just came with her friends.

A good example of this is what I did last night in set. I moved a girl multiple times.

I noticed HB8 sitting down on a lounge on her own near the dance floor. Sat next to her....and opened direct. I gamed her with mostly conversational screening questions...and i continued...then her friends came over....first one girl....then a guy...then another girl....

Grrr...no wing....but i kept reminding myself that I need to move....its been my sticking point for a while....so i grabbed her hand....

"cmon, I wanna go have a smoke...." and started walking....she followed....

Went outside for a smoke and moved into comfort....chatted for a while....then moved again....and then again....and then again!....by this stage, because I moved her multiple times, she was following me. Wherever I would go...she followed...we ended up outside at one of the tables just having conversation after conversation until the club closed at midnight.

Thats why it worked so well last night....I moved her 4 times...and not only did she follow me around, but when her friends kept calling her (she had a few missed calls by the end of the night) she ignored the phone....her friends thought she was still with me so the ended up leaving without her!...she called them and drove back to pick her up!...that was funny....icing on the cake....but it shows that moving a girl multiple times moves her away from her social circle and into your reality....

Sarge on

The night we met Tyler Durden

2007-04-06T18:17:00.000+10:00

Last night, finished work after I was bored shitless waiting for scoobs to get to the damn city! Went over to cockle bay where I met up with Skuzzy. Scooby showed up shortly afterwards. I was pumped up for a sarge....before I got there...and for some reason I felt fucked...tired and lethargic.

Anyway we hit bungalow first. But as usual, couldn't get in, this time because skuzzy was dressed too casual...but personally I reckon that was bullshit.

Then we went to Cargo. Got in...but it was shit....cock fest 97 again!...not many sets....and the sets that were there were uglies. Not happy Jan!

Then we decided to go to Opera Bar....was better than Cargo...more sets. As soon as we get there we see Auto...who was apparently there with BliminalBoy.

We got some drinks and went to a crowded area of the bar to gain proximity to some sets....problem was....over here it was cock fest 98 instead of 97!! There were a few strays around so I opened about 3 sets for warmup....skuzzy opened one set inside as well....but there wasn't much around. By this stage Apples had joined us as well....he opened a 5 set all female behind us for a warmup as well.....but other than that we decided that this place wasn't very target rich unless you were in a set already so we bounced to George St.

Man this was turning into a boring night!!!

We walked past Jacksons on George....nothing...

We went to Brooklyn Bar....nothing....

WTF....not a good night on the town at all..

So finally we decided to go back to Cargo bar to see if that had built up...if not...i was gonna suggest a Strip Club!!!..yeh baby...stripper sarging whoo hoo!

The four of us got to Cargo...was still packed with guys but there were a lot more hot women so it was good...outside we opened a couple of sets...Skuzzy went in on a pretty hot 5 set...apples found a 3set that he wanted but both sets didn't come out to much. By this stage Whisper was on his way to meet us.

Then Scooby got into a 3 set for shits and giggles....they were fucking ugly....!!!! so me and the boys stormed in all at once as wings going AFC on them!!! fuck it was funny....

Anyway...shortly after I see Metro...said hello...asked him how his night is going.....he leans over and replies...

Tyler Durden and Moxie are upstairs! For those who don't know Moxie is an instructor for Venusian Arts (formerly an instructor with Mystery Method)...and Tyler durden is...welll....tyler durden!!!

I sort of stopped breathing for a second!!

Metro told me about an approach that Tyler taught him called the Claw...it sounded like gold....Ill explain that in a minute.

He took me for a walk so we could see if he could get us upstairs into the lounge....no go.

He told me he'll grab the guys and bring them downstairs.

I went back and told scoobs and the boys...I really wanted to Meet Tyler. So I'm waiting for Metro to come back...after about 10minutes Metro comes past again....and drags us inside....

Low and behold...Tyler Durden is standing there with moxie. Metro makes the introductions and bang...we are there hanging out with Mr RSD himself. Tyler is a really nice bloke...very down to earth. Shortly he said to me...

Tyler: Have you read about "The Claw"
Malibu: Yeh man, Metro just told me about, that it sound awesome.

Then he pulled me aside...

Tyler: Go use it on that one set.... (out of all fucking sets he chooses it was a a mixed set 2 girls and 3 guys!)
Malibu: Are you serious!
Tyler: Yeah man...just do it...it will work...i guarantee it

This is where I'm starting to get a shit load of AA...demonstrate an opener I had just heard of in front of Tyler Durden...fuck...I don't wanna fuck this up.

Malibu: Dude it sounds really direct....
Tyler: Trust me it will work...Go man....get in there...just go....

Fuck the feeling was awesome but scary at the same time...so I went in...and this is the Claw:

I walked up to the target...about half a metre away from me.....grabbed her arm around the elbow....pulled her to me and said to her:

Malibu: I have to know who you are.....who are you?
HB British: What?
Malibu: I saw you from over there and I have to meet you! Whats you name?
HB British: Im HB British and you are?
Malibu: Im Malibu....so your from England ey...another pommie?
HB British: LOL...yeh....

blah blah blah....

Man...it fucking worked!!!...what the fuck! It was one of the most high intensity direct openers I have heard and it worked like a charm...

I cant wait to field test this some more!

So anyway after about 15 minutes I ejected cos we had to go.

Went and grabbed the boys...

Went over and said bye to Tyler and Moxie...and what really amazed me was that Tyler was in a two set...and when I said bye...he pulled away from the set and turned over to me to have a quick chat.....

I'm surprised because the image we get from The Game about Tyler is a real fucked up perspective...He is not like that at all....

Tyler: Why are you going man? Calling it a night?
Malibu: nah dude...my wing is outside and he cant get in so we are going to bounce somewhere else.
Metro: We are going to Lady Lux after if you wanna come down...
Malibu: cool...ill see how we go...
Tyler: Ok...nice to meet you Malibu...

And that was that....

we bounced from there....

Had a few hiccups on the way! but didn't stay out long after that....

Fuck...hanging out with Sinn in march....Tyler in april....whos next...maybe Savoy, Style and Mystery!!!

fucking awesome!

No Absolutes in Game

2007-04-05T17:58:00.000+10:00

Im so sick of seeing guys trying to reinvent the wheel.

It really gets to me.

I seen a post today on the attraction forums where someone tried to explain to me that LMR does not exist. He then argued with me for ages....Fuck me sideways.

Thats just one example.

But I see it all the time....when will guys learn...there are no absoultes in this game. Yes you can have your opinions. But what really gets to me is how guys read the game, start reading some other resources and then assume they can start writing their own theories, their own routines.

Everyone has a difference of opinion of what works and doesnt work for them...hell, guys even have a difference in taste of what women are hot and which ones are not....I mean...you would probably have to draw a line through the middle with this one to come to an overall agreement.

Am I just rabbling here?....I dont know.

Im just frustrated.

Social dynamics, as Harlequin stated to me so nicely when i spoke to him on the phone once, is a cosmic truth.

I know the majority of guys who work on their inner game feel that way.... in particular guys like Harlequin on the CarpePM Lair and myself and Scooby who run the Limestone Lair....it just bugs me that too many guys out there are trying to be Mystery!

but why is it so hard for all the other guys in the community to understand that you dont need to reinvent the whell, or come up with your own theories and routines to become good at game....

There is only one factor that stays the same for all PUA's who want to become masters of the universe....motivation to achieve something....

stick to the basics....

ground your identity....

hold your frame....

and you shall fuck like you have never fucked before!

speaking of which...im horny....and Im waiting for Scooby to get to the city so we can go sarge.....grrrrr

catch yas later.

Framing is the most important part of game

2007-04-04T18:11:00.000+10:00

It can be said that the most important part of game is inner game and your identity.

But expressing that identity....I see guys asking all the time.

The answer is Frame Control and Subcommunications. It is the link between Inner Game and Outer Game.

I have never really worked on that part of my game....I have concentrated on alot of inner game and self happiness, especially on the Mystery Forum where I am a moderator. And I have developed my own stories and routines that i like to use in set.

However I have recently noticed after spending some time with Sinn while he was here for the MM bootcamp (in Sydney, Australia) how important frame control and subcommunications are to displaying to a set who you are and what your identity is all about.

I have spent the last 4 weeks, going nuts research frame control and trying to breakdown and improving all those little niggling areas where I have found to be lacking. And I must say that my game has improved two fold.

I have been able to control the frame of my sets alot more and more importantly I have been able to express my identity alot better.

Framing really is the link between inner game and outer game....

Learn it well

Phone Game in Australia

2007-04-02T09:43:00.000+10:00

I have been field testing recently alot of phone game with the girls I meet.

My plan is to test the frequency of calling, text/emails and other forms of contact is required.

Firstly, I should say that I have been following a similar phone game plan to Sinn after doing the Sydney bootcamp.

After number closing I text her within 2 hours.

Then I call the next day.

From there I keep in some form of contact everyday, either through text or email or calling.

So far I have notcied different trends.

First example, is a girl i met through my social circle. Worked well....however I found out through my friend who I met her through that she has been calling him to find out more about me. This suggests that there is a certain comfort level she has with me because I am friends with one of her friends.

Next example, a girl I met at a cafe. Worked well for the first 2 days I met her....but then she started flaking.

Im thinking that my constant calling weirded her out. Rethinking the sarge I remembered that I didnt isolate her enough thus not providing enough comfort.

Third example....similar situation as above....she started getting weirded out by my constant contact.

There has been other examples with other female friends that I am sarging etc for more practice all with similar results.

I thought about three factors.

1. Girls in Australia are very cautious and emotionally insecure. Im assuming that the girls that are getting weirded out by the contsant contact for this reason.

2. Not enough comfort. Extending from the above reason I feel that women down under require more comfort than their american counterparts as I have become aware of in my two years of sarging.

3. When a girl didnt answer or didnt return my call was I punishing them for bad behaviour enough. I realised that this may also be an issue. So i decided to field this factor alot more.

After a few days of giving girls IOD's for not returning calls (I would not contact them for a day or so before calling back again, I would take a while returning their messages they sent me) I noticed better results.

I am still field testing this but I can at this stage conclude that:

1. Girls in Australia need a good level of comfort in order to get away with constant contact.

2. Ensure that you give them an IOD for bad behaviour...and reward them for good behaviour. Push/Pull is even important on the phone.

Ill update with more details.

Saints lost Again!

2007-04-02T09:24:00.000+10:00

Unbelievable...I was heaps disappointed in the boys. Another loss.....this time against the North Queensland Cowboys.

22-0 down at one stage....they crawled their way back to 22-18....had a chance to score on the siren....but stuffed it up....

Two losses in a row....

Not happy Jan.

Credit to Jonathon Thurston from the Cowboys....he a a damn awesome game. They deserved to win.

Stgeorge made to many simple handling errors and paid the price.

Direct Day Game Thought - breaking the "strangers" boundary

2007-03-26T11:06:00.000+10:00

This past two weeks I have been trying to get as much direct game field testing done as possible.

A situation arose yesterday that I thought about more last night and I thought of something which may make a difference to my approaches.

I was at a cafe during the day yesterday (sunday) afternoon. There was a 4 set behind me. Now at the cafe we were at there is no smoking. two of the girls had to get up and walk to a table outside the cafe to smoke outdoors. So i went over...also to have a smoke...and sat down next to them. I opened more situational but never the less i gamed them direct.

Using some DHV stories initially I noticed that when I tried to screen them there were closed off and definately not jumping through any of my hoops.

However, other IOI's were definately there. Laughing at my jokes, reinitiating conversational threads etc etc.

i realised that despite my efforts, these girls where still subdued due to the fact that I was a stranger.

I have noticed this with many other sets that i have approached directly.

Women during the day are not as in social mode as they are in clubs and bars. They are not drinking, they are out with their friends and their social circle is much more closed than usual.

I figure that when running direct game you need to beat that "strangers" boundary as early as possible. A thought I had is to introduce yourself as early into set as you can before you start screening.

Looking back over other approaches I have had using direct game where I have introduced myself, I realised that sets do become more responsive when you introduce yourself to them. In a way it feels AFC to start, but once they are comfortable with who you are, you can then move to screen/qualify them. Remember, with direct day game, there is not a high requirement for DHV, as the approach itself, done confidently will pass as a DHV. So you move straight into screening.

Ill be field testing this more and more in the coming weeks and any feedback I get Ill post.

Dragons Lost...grrrrr

2007-03-24T13:08:00.000+11:00

Last night st george played newcastle...and lost

very disappointed

more disappointed that we were winning 12-8 with 18 minutes to go and after some fundamental errors newcastle scored two tries from our mistakes and sealed their victory.

I must admit the knights played well.

The only positive thing I can think of is that it is still early in the season.

Life after Sinn

2007-03-24T12:26:00.000+11:00

Twas an awesome experience for me...metting Sinn was like meeting Al Pacino.

This guy is the secnd best PUA in the world. And seeing him in action, you will know why.

It made me realise that I had so much more work to do to improve my game. And it also allowed me to see the little grey areas of my game where I can improve.

I decide to break up with my girlfriend (whom I was having a bit of drama with anyway) and start fresh. Within a week of breaking up with her I met two other girls Im now sarging and intend to aim for more.

I wanna continue getting as much field experience as possible.

Now I have some new goals and I feel like i did when i first got into the community.

time to step up.

Welcome to the Lifestyle

2007-03-23T10:44:00.000+11:00

Finally, I have started a blog.

its funny, being a very technical character I have always been good with computers. but never have I had the interest in a blog.

never saw the point really.

However I was introduced to it by my 18 year old brother who has a myspace blog. Also I have been reading alot on Sinn's Blog and Savoy's Blog and thought its not a bad idea.

So here I am.

This blog is all about Malibu...or will be!

Ill be discussing Game, social dynamics and the benefits of the lifestyle and of course my journey to becoming the best that I can be.

but for now...peace out

Coming Soon

2007-03-09T14:51:00.000+11:00

This Blog is Currently Under Construction

Stay Tuned!!